Today I asked a guy what would he choose between a perfect pretty, smart and kind woman and an imperfect one but after answering shallowly that all people are imperfect, at the end of the message he said that he's not good at this man and woman stuff. After I smiled, I got angry.
These "stuff" are the most important thing in life. This is what makes possible for us to live. Can we live on this planet if there aren't any people? I can't and I guess nobody can. The relationships we make weather it's with a man or a woman... this is what we live for. Can we live only for our work or career, being lonely? Ok, let's say that all your life all you care about is your career and then what? When you'll be sixty, old and sick and alone in a house with nobody to look at you or hold your hand or keep you company, nobody to love and nobody that loves you. Is this the dream you want? Is this the perfect life that everyone should aspire? I better not live than live like this. I want to have grandchildren, I want to go on vacations with my husband, I want a white wedding dress and to give birth... I don't want to be lonely.
So these "stuff" for me are the most important thing in life, that's why I got angry at a boy fer not knowing how to set his priorities. Now that I think of it I'm kind of funny to get angry at him for that.
People better realize this soon: you need friends, family and you need love more than anything in order to find happiness in this kind of world.
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